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There is no single reason a man chooses to visit a Mistress. For some, it is simply curiosity — an opportunity to explore role play or a fantasy they may have thought about for years. For others, the attraction may involve restraint, discipline, humiliation, surrender or the excitement of giving someone else complete control for a while. Our desires are complicated things. Sometimes fantasies develop through experiences and associations formed much earlier in life. A particular situation, sensation or power dynamic may become connected with excitement and remain part of someone’s imagination many years later. Other desires simply emerge as we grow and discover more about ourselves. One of the things Mistress Candy has found particularly interesting is the number of successful, powerful and highly responsible men who enjoy surrendering control. Their everyday lives may revolve around making decisions, managing people, solving problems and carrying responsibility. With a Mistress, that dynamic can be reversed. For a little while, somebody else decides. There is nothing to organise. Nothing to manage. No need to be in control. They simply surrender to the experience. For some men, there is also something incredibly appealing about being desired rather than always being expected to initiate. The fantasy of a confident woman taking control, expressing what she wants and making him the focus of her attention can be extraordinarily powerful. And sometimes there doesn’t need to be a complicated explanation at all. Fantasy can be playful. It can be exciting, liberating, intimate or challenging. What matters to Mistress Candy is understanding the person in front of her — what excites him, what intrigues him, where his boundaries lie and what kind of experience he wants to explore. Perhaps that is one of the greatest attractions of visiting a Mistress: for a little while, you can stop being the person the outside world expects you to be and explore another side of yourself.